i ♥...i miss

...my bed
...and my fluppy pillows
...the beach
...Margie's kitchen in Butuan
...to speak the Bisayan language
...the fishes of Mindanao
...the kinilaw and panga
...the carbonated cola
...some fresh milk
...and chocolates
...COFFEE!!
...to dance in the rain
...the outings with my friends
...the movie date every weekend
...with enan at iris
...having a housemate
...my college housemates
...having someone to dine with
...and toothbrush with
...that someone
...the last call of the day
...and so on and so forth.

survey...sort of

Pauline forwarded me the 9 reasons why people cheat...and at the end ofthe article, the author asked this question : If you are single, but seeing a person who is in a committed relationship, does that make you a cheater?

I asked myself the same question, several times...and my answer is NO! Then, I asked a few friends the same question and here's what they have to say: 

1: no! it's the person who's in a relationship that's a cheater.

2: it depends, kung nerereciprocate mo ung cheating, oo cheater ka rin. kung may feelings ka rin kaya u keep on seeing him, sa kin oo cheater ka rin. kasi alam mo naman na taken eh. pero at least, sarili mo lang dinadaya mo at yung gf nya.

3: ive asked myself that question many times. ang gusto kong sagot is.....hindi naman kasal eh! actually, i wanted to but figured if the guy can cheat on his gf with me...he can do that to me as well.

4: you are not! but the guy is.

Whatchathink??

Set me free, leave me be. I don't want to fall another moment into your gravity...

I've been listening to this song over and over and over again...And so at the strike of 4:30 yesterday, I  dragged Mar and Tin to go with me to the salon and had my hair cut short.  Yes, after ?? years, I am no longer Miss Long Shiny Black Hair and I like it! Maybe, I'll let the hairdresser cut it shorter...next week...and set me free, leave me be...

Gravity

Sara Bareilles

Something always brings me back to you.
It never takes too long.
No matter what I say or do, I still feel you here 'till the moment I'm gone.

You hold me without touch.
You keep me without chains.
I never wanted anything so much than to drown in your love and not feel your rain.

CHORUS
Set me free, leave me be. I don't want to fall another moment into your gravity.
Here I am and I stand so tall, just the way I'm supposed to be.
But you're on to me and all over me.

You loved me 'cause I'm fragile.
When I thought that I was strong.
But you touch me for a little while and all my fragile strength is gone.

CHORUS
Set me free, leave me be. I don't want to fall another moment into your gravity.
Here I am and I stand so tall, just the way I'm supposed to be.
But you're on to me and all over me.

I live here on my knees as I
Try to make you see that you're
Everything I think I need here on the ground.
But you're neither friend nor foe though I
Can't seem to let you go.
The one thing that I still know is that you're keeping me down
You're keeping me down, yeah, yeah, yeah
You're onto me, onto me and all over

Something always brings me back to you
It never takes too long

Quote of the day: Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous. - Carrie Bradshaw, Sex and the City